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It made me make insane connections to women and made them open up. The concept of vulnerability was HUGE.His chapters on "your story" and "the gift" was great for me to cope with my past and reframe "my story".His getting slapped story and really vulnerable anecdotes were a blessing in the sea of theory oriented world of PU. Incredible fun frames and letting go of the outcome.People get rejected and PU is much more of a treasure hunt than a manipulative process. The difference between a newbie and an expert being 1% and 10%. It was the only book in PU existence that has a very extensive rejection section WITH MENTAL FRAMES about it.The 0 to 1 number system instead of 0 to 10 is one of the biggest factors I got laid with stunners when I was beginning.I've read it in 15', so my memory might be hazy, but. But I can't see him saying something true that would get him "canceled". I'm guessing he went mainstream to impact a larger audience, sure. I also wonder if his material suffers by going mainstream. He gives the reader tools to develop the action plan though. He wants to let the reader determine their values. He also doesn't really lay out a comprehensive action plan. Mark's approach is relatively high-level with some tactics thrown in there. The flaw I see, is that he doesn't delve into social nuances like Chase does. Basically don't be a doormat (simp) but also not an overcompensating douche (narcissist).

Where he mentions to assert your boundaries. Nor does it give you instructions like "say these 3 things, step at a 45 degree, smile for half second." It doesn't make you stew in resentment of women. I found it healthy amidst all the "red pill" and gamey material out there. being direct in expression thoughts, opinions, etc.). approaching girl you like), and communication (ex. I've always been curious what this community thinks about Mark Manson's book on dating.īasically the book hammers the idea of "vulnerability", being honest and true to intentions in lifestyle (career, passions), actions (ex.